Sometimes you just need to get off — even when you don't have or don't want someone to help out. If you have a vagina, what's the best way to do it? We've gathered a series of masturbation tips for people all across the gender spectrum. Whether you're gay, straight as a line, or anything in between, we've got you covered.
Here are some of the best moves for people who know the best kind of self care. Do not judge yourself for your own fantasies or desires. Nothing is too dirty for your mind. Change your place, your clothes, your job, your lover. Later, you can ask a partner to do for you what got you the most excited. There are also sites with porn curated to better suit your desires. We recommend checking out Bellesa! Many women and femmes, gay and straight alike, enjoy watching lesbian sex.
Also, some like man on man, as it feels less objectifying. Touch your breasts and other sensitive areas with a free hand. Feel free to spread the fluids from inside your vagina as lubrication for your clit. If you have a detachable shower head, give yourself a special rinse. Laying down in a bathtub also works great as well. Let the water run between your legs, flexing and retracting your legs to control pressure. Feel free to change the temperature of the water from warm to cold to heighten your senses. Be careful not to scald yourself though!
The intense pressure on your clit or up your vag will be amazing. Some of the most popular sex toys are vibrators and dildos. We recommend a thruster - a sex toy that not only vibrates on your clit or goes inside your vagina, but actually pumps inside you with the press of a button. Get a large packet of batteries. These things die out when you need them most. Sex toys can be made with jelly-like plastic sheaths are made with phthalates — those nasty chemicals that some water bottles are made with — and you don't want them to eventually seep into your system.
Instead, buy from companies that sell non-toxic sex toys. Wash your sex toys with antibacterial soap each time you use it. Feeling sexy for yourself is a great reason to put on your favorite lingerie. Clean your room first. It will make you feel terrible if you rub one out next to the pizza box you forgot to throw out. The kitchen, bathroom, standing up Remind yourself that you are beautiful and enough, in and out of the bedroom. All Rights Reserved. You should be good in bed even if you're the only one there.
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